Why do some people seem to be naturally magnetic? If you’ve thought this at one time or another, then you may not realize how your emotions can affect your ability to attract others. You may be blocking your sexual energy from letting loose. You may have stored up negativity that is blocking your sex drive. If you learn to let go of any negativity from your entire body, then you can crank up your magnetic love energy!
Are you ready to make super sexy, flirty first impressions? Let’s get started…
Stress, Fear and Anxiety Block Satisfying Sex
When you experience stress, fear or anxiety, sex is usually the last thing on your mind. Work dilemmas, relationship woes, family issues and money problems can be devastating to your libido. It’s hard to feel sexy when you’re worried about the mortgage payment. Fear and anxiety associated with sex itself can also be problematic. Worrying about everything from STDs to fear of pregnancy to sexual performance, dampen your sex drive and hamper your chances to have a satisfying sexual experience.
Fear, anxiety and depression about aging can also affect your sex drive. Are you worried about getting older? Learn to let these fears go and set the anxiety aside, and watch your sex drive accelerate.
Stuck Energy Causes Depression
According to medical experts, depression is caused by an imbalance of brain chemicals, along with other factors. Energetically speaking, the root cause of depression stems from foreign energy being stuck in your body. When foreign energy dims and over-shadows your natural energy, you become depressed!
Do you remember being attracted to someone special in your life? You are attracted to someone because you admire something unique about them. You might think they are handsome, funny or even poised. You like how you feel around them. With every passing day, you start to adopt their energy as your own. When this happens, and you don’t release it back to them, your own energy becomes depressed and your relationship takes a nose-dive.
Like with computers, you cannot use MAC software in a PC or vice-verse. They each require their own unique software to operate and process their functions. The same is true for people. The very vibe that attracted you to another person, is the very thing that makes you sexually non-responsive, argumentative and emotional. It can affect your attitude, your health and your libido.
Viagra Doesn’t Work on Low Self Esteem
If you’ve thought Viagra might be the answer to all of your sexual problems, then you might want to rethink that. Viagra only increases blood flow to the genital area to enhance physical sexual stimulation in women or men. It cannot affect your sexual energy, body image, relationship or emotional issues that impede sexual function.
Most people dislike some aspect of his or her body. Do you think you have jiggly thighs, a curved penis, small breasts, fat belly or a hairy back? While you might not be 100% satisfied with the way you look, you have learned to live with the perceived flaw. This perception may actually create an energetic block that affects the sexual image of yourself and your ability to express yourself. The reality is however, that to have good feelings about sex, you have to have good feelings about your body.
Release Negative Self Talk with Grounding
Whenever you find yourself having a negative thought about your body, release it down your grounding cord or put it inside a symbol and explode it. For example, if you’re obsessing on your extra roll of belly fat, stop yourself. Throw that thought down your grounding cord or explode that thought inside a firecracker. Then fill yourself up with a shimmering gold sun of self-appreciation and sex appeal.
As you start to feel better about yourself and feel a little sexier, no matter what you look like, your sex drive will improve. Learn to love yourself for who you are, warts and all. Only then will you be able to have a really satisfying sex life and magnetically draw people who love and appreciate you.
Grounding Visualization for the Entire Body
To experience self-love and appreciation, release energy by grounding the entire body. Your natural magnetic energy will be stimulated, kicking you into high gear. Follow these instructions below:
- Create a grounding cord–visualize yourself being connected to the Earth by a cord.
- Visualize a 2nd grounding cord from the bottom of your feet to the main grounding cord coming out from your spine.
- Allow gravity to pull out any dark colors, white light or any colors you intuitively know are not your energy to be pulled out.
- Release anything that prevents healing.
- Ground your ankles, legs, knees, thighs, hips, and abdomen. Release any energy stored in those body parts.
- Ground your sex organs. Ask yourself, is there anyone else’s energy stored there? Do you get a sense of thoughts or judgments from: former teachers, lovers, partners, or friends sitting on your skin or inside these areas? Release both positive and negative energies. If someone likes the shape of your butt, their energy stays with it. And, here you thought it was because of all of the chocolate you ate.
- Replenish your body and organs with a golden sun by putting some of your own energy back in your body.
SECRET TIP–Positive or negative energy can also block the optimum energy function.
What’s in the Past is in the Past!
Don’t get stuck on situations in the past. Allow past energy to release. It’s no fun to be stuck in the past. It’s no fun to be a victim. Stay present so you can let go, move on and attract the type of loving relationship you desire. You can release the emotional charge of past experiences through visualization.
Ensure a Healthy Body and Love Life
Lastly, learn to release stress, fear and anxiety to ensure a healthy body. Eat a balanced diet, drink plenty of water, sleep at least eight hours a night, exercise regularly and practice relaxation techniques such as meditation or yoga. If you won’t do it for your general health, do it for your sex life!
Coachella hairstyles are all about playing with relaxed, carefree looks. Whether it’s just a simple beach-waves look, or a braided style accented with a flower crown, festivals are the perfect time to experiment with effortless styles. And the best part of relaxed looks are how easy they are to recreate at home! Celebrity hair stylist and Rowenta Beauty Brand Ambassador, Josue Perez, gives us the 411 on how to do these simple Coachella-inspired hair styles at home.
Wavy Locks Paired with a Floral Crown:
- The best part about this look is two-fold: it’s the easiest look to achieve, and the most classice for a music festival style! The best of both worlds.
- Let your hair air dry for this look; you don’t want your hair blown out because that will take away the natural kinks of your hair.
- Do a light side part, or whichever your most comfortable with, playing on your hair’s natural part.
- Take a styling iron, and using as a straightener, straighten the roots of your hair only to keep them nice and smooth below the flower crown, but keep the rest of your hair wavy or natural.
- Using the styling iron for waves, fix any unruly pieces by giving them a slight wave. Do as needed for all of your hair.
- Get creative! Pick a flower crown to top off your look. Spray lightly with holding spray to finish.
French Braid Crown
- This look is gorgeous for a festival, and doesn’t require too many steps.
- Brush your hair back, removing the part from your hair.
- Next, begin at one side right above your ear, and grab a large section of your hair, dividing the top half and bottom half.
- French braid your hair up and over the crown your head as opposed to French braiding back.
- Continue braiding until you hit behind the ear of the opposite side. Clip with bobby pins to hold in place, and let the rest of the hair fall down to meet the bottom layer.
- Take the bottom layer, and twist up into a bun so that it sits right below the French braid.
- Lightly tug on both the braid and the bun so that the hair is loose, forming the look to come together.
- Spray with hairspray to hold!
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These elegant silicone wonders activate with a single switch to provide powerful vibrations right where you want them most. The whisper-quiet motor tickles and teases, while the super-soft silicone feels great against your skin.
The nipples are one of the most sensitive and erogenous zones of the body; and hey, some women can achieve orgasm through nipple stimulation alone. Just something to think about.
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There’s a reason these eggs are one of our best sellers! Gentlemen, enjoy self-pleasure anytime with Tenga Eggs. This male masturbation toy puts the user in full control.
Peel the outer layer like you would a hard-boiled egg, then crack open the shell to reveal an “ona-cup.” These egg-shaped masturbation sleeves come in various textures, each offering unique pleasures and experiences.
You’ll never look at an egg the same way again.
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Nothing teases quite like a feather tickler. Le Plumeau Caresse will thrill and tease your entire body. The soft touch of feathers on your skin will take you to a whole new world of unique sensation.
Tickle Me Sexy
Men and women have similar erogenous zones that, when teased and tickled, are extremely arousing.
The lips are the most obvious starting point when hitting all the erogenous zones, so start with a long, slow kiss to get your partner warmed up. Then, take the tickler and lightly tease the nape of their neck, working your way down to the nipples – focus here for a little, as this is an extremely sensitive area.
Move down to the lower back and the waistline. They’ll be anticipating (wanting) your target to be their genitals, but skip that and instead use the tickler to lightly brush the back of the knee.
With a sensual slow rhythm, move the tickler up to the inner thigh, and finally, to their most sensual area.
The soft, barely-there touches will drive your partner insane and they’ll be begging for you to put your hands on them.
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To the untrained eye, these gorgeous cuffs look like regular pearl bracelets – but you know what you’re planning on doing with them later.
Wearing these pearl bracelets to dinner or any other public occasion will have both you and your partner anticipating the time when you can finally rip off each other’s clothes and turn those bracelets into handcuffs.
Use the chain to bind the cuffs together and get to work!
50 Shades of Naughty
Light bondage is exciting and extremely pleasurable. Not being able to touch your partner as they work their magic on you is erotic and oh-so-fun.
The best thing about these cuffs is that you can use them both in foreplay and during the main event.
Restraint leaves your body with no option other than to fully enjoy the intensity of sex.
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Rings are a great toy to bring into the bedroom, they constrict blood flow to the penis and create a sensation of tightness and pleasure – and vibrating rings are even better.
Share stimulating sensations with the Power Pleasure Ring by Dorcel. Its wonderfully-powerful motor will leave you both satisfied yet wanting more.
How to Use:
This vibrating ring can be worn behind the scrotum or in front.
For clitoral stimulation, place the vibe at the base of the penis. In face-to-face positions, the vibe will hit your clitoris while he’s thrusting. And, man is it amazing!
He can also wear it behind the scrotum for some major stimulation during sex. Wearing it this way can also increase pleasure for him during a solo act.
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This sleek mini vibe is ultra-powerful, waterproof and whisper quiet – and, its five speeds mean you can have it exactly how you like.
We all know that vibrators are great for solo-play, but if you haven’t used your battery-operated friend with your partner, you are both missing out.
A vibrator can be a major game changer to your oral sex routine. All the pleasures of oral will be thrown into overdrive when you add this little bullet into the mix.
On Her: It will bring her over the edge when her partner strokes her clitoris with the vibe while going down on her.
On Him: Gently pass the vibrator up and down the shaft of his penis – this area can handle a stronger vibration. Then, when you take him into your mouth, use the vibrator to gently massage his balls. Use on the lowest setting as the testicles are extremely sensitive!
This vibrator can also be used during the main event.
On Her: Sex is amazing but sex and clitoris stimulation at the same time? Hello orgasm!
On Him: His perineum — the small patch of skin between his balls and anus — is supersensitive. As you ride him, reach behind and hold it against that area. He will explode (literally).
When he’s behind you, there’s plenty of room open in front to bring in some vibration. Doggy style position makes it easy for him to reach around and stimulate your clitoris.
While in reverse cowgirl, there is plenty of room for vibrator stimulation. He can lay back and reach around to stimulate your clitoris with the vibrator.
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